September 2008


Yeah, I know, these two are very long words.

But these were two of the procedures that Little Guy underwent on Tuesday (23 Sep). Little Guy, all of four years of age, undergoing his first surgery. I would be lying if I said that I wasn’t worried!

What are these procedures, you ask? This diagram and the links below will make things clear – what and where the tonsils and adenoid are.

I won’t go into the details of the procedures as these can be found in the same links above.  There is also a very informative set of slides here.

Until I brought Little Guy to consult an Ear, Nose and Throat (ENT) specialist, I had never heard of an adenoid.  Tonsillectomy was a common procedure and I have some friends who had their tonsils removed.  But adenoid?  Something new to me!  But all it took was a little Googling to find out what it was all about.

I suppose you will be more interested in why Little Guy had to undergo these two procedures.  Well, here’s the story.

Little Guy used to be a very healthy kid, until February this year when he started falling sick EVERY month.  He would have fever, sometimes accompanied by flu-like symptoms such as a runny nose and yellowish phlegm.  I would have brushed it off as an inevitable infection as he attends a childcare centre, and once in a while, a virus does make its rounds.

But when it happened month after month, I became worried.  I’m a worrier – especially when it comes to a kid having fevers frequently.  After a couple of months, he stopped having his ‘monthly’ viral fevers but continued to have frequent episodes of getting thick yellowish mucus discharged from his nose and mouth – the type of phlegm that was simply irritating and difficult to get well from.

I also noticed that Little Guy snored in his sleep and slept on his tummy most of the time (he did not have this habit before).  I suspected that his breathing must be affecting the way he slept.  His voice had also became very nasal, as if his nose was very congested.  We have not heard his former voice since February!

He then started to have frequent nosebleeds.  I got even more worried.  My mother-in-law said that Little Guy must be heaty and that many kids suffer from nosebleeds.  Of course, I did not agree with what she said.  I know my kid and I know what I have been feeding him and nosebleeds could stem from something more serious.

His nosebleeds became more frequent – by July, it happened weekly.  The last straw came when he woke us up in the middle of the night and we had a shock when we turned on the lights.  His nose, mouth and cheeks were bloodied, so were his pillows and his bedsheet.  It was a frightening sight.  I could see that Big Guy was at a loss of what to do.

My heart broke for Little Guy.  Luckily he did not look in the mirror (or I’m sure he’ll burst out crying).  I calmly used some wet napkins to wipe his face clean and pulled off the bloodied bedlinen.  Then I had him sleep with me for the rest of the night.  I could not wait for morning to come to rush him to our family doctor.

Our doctor, whom we had consulted for the viral fevers months earlier, again suggested prescribing a nasal spray.  I, however, insisted on a referral to an ENT specialist.  So it was three days later that we went to see the ENT specialist at the hospital.

She did some simple checks and assured us that there were no abnormal growths in his nose and that there was no cancer.  She suspected that Little Guy may be showing signs of allergy to stuff in his room or stuff that he ate or used.  Little Guy did a skin-prick allergy test but the test returned negative results.  She also mentioned that Little Guy is a mouth-breather (breathes through his mouth).  I suppose he breathes so because his nose was blocked.

That day of the first consultation with the ENT specialist was also the first time I heard of the adenoid.  The doctor spoke as if I should know, but I didn’t.  However, a quick search on the internet gave me the information that I required.

Since the doctor suspected that Little Guy suffered from allergies, she prescribed a steroid nasal spray and two months’ worth of a liquid anti-histamine.  But all these did not help Little Guy.  I hated giving him anti-histamine because it caused him to sweat a lot and made it uncomfortable to sleep. 

During the two months before his second consultation with the doctor, I did my own research by sleeping with Little Guy, on his bed, for several nights.

I found that Little Guy continued to snore, had restful sleep for about four hours after his bedtime.  After four hours, he tossed and turned a lot and was very restless.  I felt helpless as there was nothing I could do to help him sleep better.

Two months passed and we went for the second consultation where I told the doctor that the allergy medication did not work.  She ordered X-rays for Little Guy and a few minutes after that, we were able to see his X-rays on her computer screen.

Little Guy has abnormally large tonsils and his large adenoid was blocking his nasal airway (hence the nasal voice and forced breathing).  So a tonsillectomy and adenoidectomy was recommended.  I agreed immediately.  I wanted to free Little Guy from this suffering, although he did not feel so, as he was ever the active and mischievous little boy.

I now know why the areas under his eyes turn reddish whenever he runs about for just a bit.  I also suspect that the reason for his being the shortest in his class (which makes him really cute) is because of his laboured breathing – growing bodies should benefit from better air, right?

So now that the procedures are done, and it will take a few weeks for him to fully recover, I anticipate a growth spurt after that.  I had also explained to him, in the days before his surgery, that he’s going to grow big quickly after this.  It was a great incentive to him!

And guess what?  The day after his surgery, when the anesthetic had fully worn off, he woke up, stretched and asked me if he had grown taller!

Patience my son, patience!

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I haven’t been able to blog lately as the only free time that I had for writing was after midnight (Singapore time).

And at this time, anything that I click on WordPress took ages to load!

If I did manage to sign-in, I wasn’t able to write any new entries, look at my blog stats and what-have-yous.  Every page that I wanted to go to, took ages to load.  So much so that I have given up night after night.

This has happened before, but it got better, then it came back.

I’m squeezing some time now, before I have to start preparing dinner, to write as much as I can.

Maybe I should just switch to Blogger or something!

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The last two days were terrible!  Hit by a very bad bout of flu, I was totally knocked out!

Body ache, blocked nose, sore throat, cough, runny nose, lethargy - the works!

My throat was so bad that the phlegm I coughed out were bloody!  And each time I coughed, the pain was terrible.  It was as if my throat was going to come out with each cough!  I also can’t sleep through the night without coughing a thousand times!

I’m usually anti-anti-biotics.  But this time, I popped them without hesitation.  I wanted to get well again quickly – I wanted to stop the horribly sore throat, cough and blocked nose, to get my voice back again.  I can’t even read to Little Guy now, and he needs to be read to before he sleeps every night (and he thinks his Daddy is a lousy replacement for Mummy!).

Urgh!  I WANT to get better SOON!

What have I done?!

I went and got myself a job, that’s what!

I went for an interview recently and have just been told that I’m hired!  I wasn’t even seriously looking for a job – the place where a friend works had a vacancy to fill (and she so much wanted me to join her in suffering there!).  I sent in my resume, was interviewed with a couple of others and they picked me.

Kelong?  Maybe.  But I do have the goods and I suppose employers trust referrals more?

So, YAY! J I got the job!  I got the job! 

Or

yay? L

Hmm… I going to start work exactly one year and one day after I quit my last job.  I’m apprehensive.  Wouldn’t you be, if you had to crank up that old rusty machinery of yours too?  And in the IT (a fast moving) industry too?  Have much passed me by?  I hope not!

Yes, I shouldn’t be complaining, given the spate of bad news of crashing stock markets, inflation, economic slowdown, etc, etc (basically bad news!).  And the job market is tightening, so I read in today’s papers.

So…

YAY!  J because:

  • more money to spend!
  • Big Guy’s happy ‘cos he does not need to give me an allowance any more!
  • I’m lucky to have been able to take a one-year break.  It’s a luxury not many people can afford, and I thank God for it!
  • no more doing ALL the housework!
  • I have a job while some people don’t or can’t!
  • this blog might have more fodder for its posts.

yay? L because:

  • no more Auntie Days,
  • no more lazy days where I can take one-hour naps whenever I feel like it,
  • no more time for internet research,
  • this blog will probably have less entries, or worse, die!
  • no more bringing Little Guy to the movies in near empty theatres,
  • my fitness programme will be affected,
  • Big Guy’s not happy ‘cos he has to share in the housework again (why do I care?!J)
  • I’m gonna have to be on my toes at work, and I hate the initial period of getting to know new people, culture, work, etc, etc
  • no more lounging around in whatever I like! 
  • I have to iron crinkly work-clothes that require lots more effort than tees and strappies!
  • straddling work, family and home will be stressful!
  • … so many no mores!!

I think I’d better stop counting, or else I might just end up ditching the job offer.

Now to scramble to complete all the things I’d wanted to do at home (and thought I had all the time in the world to do them!) – cleaning out mouldy cupboards, throwing out old and useless stuff, doing Little Guy’s scrap book (four years overdue!!), painting the house…

Sheesh! 

What have I done?!

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So what has Bill Gates been up to?

Love this Microsoft ad he did with Jerry Seinfeld!

Hey, my house is open for both of you to come connect?

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We were at the Telok Blangah mid-autumn festival celebrations at HortPark earlier tonight.  Little Guy brought along his brand new dinosaur lantern, all eager and excited to walk around the park.  Several hundred other people were there too.

Big Guy was trying to light the candle in the lantern when we were approached by an NParks staff.  She told us something that made our jaws drop.  She said that there was to be no naked flames in the park.  This was because it is a hazard – to who and what, she did not mention.  She said some lanterns got burnt earlier (and so the hazard) and they have decided then and there that no one should have a lantern with a lighted candle.

WTF!  (I was thinking this, I didn’t utter it!).  Lantern walk with unlighted lanterns?  How ridiculous!  What rubbish!  Who doesn’t know that carrying such lanterns came with the risk of them getting burnt?  In fact, isn’t that part of the fun?  And imagine walking around the park with an unlighted lantern?  Won’t we look ridiculous?

I was dismayed and you can imagine Little Guy’s disappointment.  It would be useless arguing with the NParks staff though, as I can imagine them just repeating the same thing over and over again.

Imagine!  Fire crackers were banned a long time ago - will it come down to banning lanterns too?  Haven’t we been enjoying lantern walks in parks for a zillion years already?!

We quickly left HortPark and made our way to West Coast Park instead.  I’m not sure if enough people protested to make them change the ridiculous rule later.  We certainly did not want to wait to find out!

At West Coast Park, people were having picnics by the moonlight and hung lighted paper lanterns on the trees next to them.  Many others were strolling with paper lanterns lighted with candles, and no NParks staff were around to stop them.

(the ghostly red/orange lights in the middle of the pic came from the lanterns hanging from the trees)

Little Guy could finally take his dinosaur lantern for a walk!

Please lah, NParks, don’t be ridiculous!

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Autumn in Singapore?

One of my favourite trees is the sea almond tree.  More so when its leaves turn orange before turning brown and falling off the tree.

Saw this big guy when I walked to the supermarket and back.  Too bad my lousy phone camera did not do justice to the beautiful tree.

And guess what?  My new pedometer measured more than 3 km for that walk! 

Crazy, you think?  Walking 3 km to the supermarket and back?  I love it!  And according to the trusty pedometer, I did more than 5,000 aerobic steps by doing that!

Yay!  My fitness programme is on track!

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I can’t believe it!  I had been so busy the last few days – I did not turn on my PC for five days!  Unbelievable!  A record!

Little Guy turned four over the weekend – one of the reasons for my busyness.  I spent several days and nights making masks for his friends for his Batman-themed birthday party.  It was quite a sight seeing all of them in the masks.  Sooooo cute!

Then there were two death anniversaries to celebrate.  It was a hot and sweltering rush between CCK cemetery and a columbarium a far distance apart.  I seriously hate this – it has been happening every year for the last ten years or so.  I have told Big Guy to just sprinkle my ashes in the sea if I should die before him.  There’ll then be no need for anybody to visit me anywhere.

The weekend went by in a whirl of activities and I just had to have time-out.  I managed to do so with a forty-minute foot reflexology session.  It felt great even though a lot of pain was involved.  I really should do this more often!

I also kept my appointment with my dermatologist who gave me the works – laser treatment for my stubborn pigmentation, whitening jabs and IPL.  This session gave me my money’s worth, as usually it would either be laser or IPL only, for the same price.

And since I was so concerned about taking 10,000 steps every day, I went and got myself this:

The latest pedometer from OMRON!  Apparently, we should take at least 3,000 aerobic steps a day (10,000 steps refers to normal steps) – for the detailed explanation of the difference between these two kinds of steps, refer to the product’s manual.

I put it to use today and found that while working out, at home, to a Trim Walk video by Denise Austin, I covered about 2 km and 3,111 aerobic steps.  The gadget also tells you how much fat you burnt (in grams), as well as the calories burnt.  It even has a 7-day memory function.  Great stuff!  I’m gonna use it again tomorrow when I walk around my neighbourhood.

Ok, this post is something of a rojak post.  But I don’t care, I’m just glad I’m less busy now! 

Back to business as usual!

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Recently I started getting concerned about the condition of my and Big Guy’s hearts.  We’re not active people and we knew for the longest time that we really do need to kick each other’s butts to go get fit again. 

Big Guy used to jog on a regular basis but has not done that for a long time.  His latest medical report has finally kicked him into getting into an exercise regime again.  He has high cholesterol and needs to lose a few kilograms.  So he has started jogging again – starting with a short distance and targeting for the 10 km marathon at the end of the year.

As for me, I’m the brisk walking type instead of the jogging type.  I just hate running.  I’m telling myself I should graduate from brisk walking to jogging soon.  But it has proven to be rather difficult!

I checked out the Singapore Heart Foundation website and found some interesting information - we’ll need to take at least 10,000 steps a day to be considered active!

Steps Per Day Activity Level
< 5,000 sedentary
5,000 – 7,499 low active
7,500 – 9,999 somewhat active
≥10,000 active
≥12,500 highly active

I think it’s time I got a pedometer and get out of the house more often! 

Sheesh!  10,000 steps a day?!  I’ll probably take up skipping as well!

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The first time I pulled out a Satoshi Kitamura book from the library’s shelf, I thought the book was one that was translated from Japanese.  Well, I was wrong.  Kitamura was born in Japan but moved to London in 1979.  He has been based there since.

The Kitamura book that I read with Little Guy was Sheep in Wolves Clothing.  After reading many of Kitamura’s books (see a whole list of his works here), this remains our favourite.  It is witty and funny and the illustrations are also beautiful.  Little Guy will linger over them, asking me many questions.  We also shared many laughs each time we read it.

The amusing thing about reading Kitamura to Little Guy for the first time (when he was just past 2 years old) was that he broke into a hearty laughter when I said by Satoshi Kitamura.

Somehow, Sa-to-shi Ki-ta-mu-ra just threw him into a laughing fit!  Maybe the many syllables or the sound of his name (which has a nice ring to it) simply tickled Little Guy.  For a period after that, when I wanted to make/hear Little Guy laugh (in a baby-ish sort of way), I would just say Satoshi Kitamura and he would roll on the bed in laughter.  He has stopped doing that now, although two weeks ago, he laughed in the same manner when I mentioned Miss Akiko, a Japanese teacher who was due to visit his school.  Hmm… so maybe he’s just tickled by Japanese names?  Oh, see how I’ve digressed (mums just love talking about their kids?)…

Anyway, I find Kitamura’s stories to be very clever and witty, and very suitable for adults too.  I think some kids may not get what he’s trying to put across sometimes, but parents reading his books will.  But this does not spoil the fun for the kids at all. 

For instance, in Me and My Cat?, the protagonist Nicholas, switched identities with his cat, Leonardo.  While out for a walk as a cat, Nicholas had a strange thought -

The brick wall was warm under my paws.  As I got to Miss Thomson’s garden, a funny thought occurred to me.

Miss Thomson had given me Leonardo when he was a kitten.  Leonardo was Heloise’s son.  Did that mean Heloise was now my mother?

I think the latter sentence would be beyond the grasp of a young kid like Little Guy.  But it was funny to me and it gets funnier as Nicholas continued his short-lived life as his cat Leornado.  Go here to have this book read to you by no less than the Lord of The Rings star, Elijah Wood (click on More Stories until you come to this title).  He did a pretty good reading.  And also check out other stories read by other actors as well.  This is a great site, as it even has downloadable activity suggestions for each of the stories read.

Little Guy and I are still in the process of trying to borrow and read all of Kitamura’s books and I’m thinking of buying those that we like very much, instead of borrowing them from the library.

Kitamura not only writes and illustrates children’s books – he does other kinds of drawings as well.  And according to his biography,

Satoshi Kitamura’s output hasn’t been confined to children’s picture books however. His illustrations can also be found anywhere from award winning signage at Birmingham Children’s Hospital, Eureka! Children’s museum in Halifax, posters for the Tokyo Underground, poetry anthologies, a Japanese stationery range and more…

He has a strong following, some of whom have set up Satoshiland, a site for all things Satoshi. 

Great stuff from a very talented man!

Related post: My favourite authors of children’s books (1) – Viviane Schwarz

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